1. Real confidence is that you don't seek approval from others
2. Real confidence is that you smile only when you really mean it (no fake bullshit)
3. Real confidence is that you're not afraid of silence
4. Real confidence is that you don't shift responsibility
5. Real confidence is that you don't flatter
6. Real confidence is that you always (try) to love yourself
7. Real confidence is that you aren't afraid to show your weaknesses
8. Real confidence is that you know who you are and what you want (or passionately working on it to find it out)
9. Real confidence is that you don't judge others
10. Real confidence is that you aren't afraid to fail