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9 honest advices (if you want to get better)

1. give up sticking to the person you used to be

– step outside of the person you have been

– remember who you want to be and what you are capable of

– if you have to come out of your comfort zone, happily do so for the person you want to be

2. give up criticizing yourself for everything you are not

– love yourself in thoughts, words and actions

– be kind to yourself. it is more important than being kind to others

– work through your fears, insecurities and anger. help yourself to grow beyond them

3. give up regretting and holding on to your past

– when you hold on to your past, you miss the beauty of present and what you have today

– thank the things that didn't workout, because they just made room for the things that will

4. give up all the constant negativity that surrounds you

– it is very important to be positive even in the negative times

– looking for the worst destroys our capacity to do our best

– act, even in some small way, don't sit and wait for perfect future

5. give up thinking that other's life is much easier

– everyone around you is facing their own struggles and it is as hard as it is for you

– always remember that "grass looks greener on the other side"

6. give up wanting to be where other's are in life

– stop comparing where you are at with where everybody else is. it doesn't take you forward, it pulls you down

– you are unique, so are your goals, dreams and journey

– trust that you are in the right place at the right time

7. give up letting the judgement of other's control you

– other's don't know your story, and what you have been through

– what you think about yourself matters. think about yourself

– do what is right for you, not what other's think you should be doing

8. give up believing you aren't strong enough to move forward

– it's always possible to go on, no matter how impossible it seems

– remember, everything is going to be ok

– have courage to take one more step. you will be glad you did it

9. don't overthink it

– just send the message

– just call the person you have been thinking about

– just post it

– just be honest

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